October 29th, 2010 
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It is very difficult to live in a world where people who are very fat are not able to do most things that others can do. I am prepared to share the complete, brutal, admittedly terrible truth with everyone.
We can begin with the most obvious, appearance. We have to stare at our bodies every day and hope that they can look good. The image that we see in the mirror is never going to appear in a positive way. The features on your face, no matter how beautiful they may be, are dwarfed by the extra fat you carry in your face. You can apply makeup, and help make yourself look better to a certain degree, but you know that no one is going to compliment your shade of lipstick today. It does not matter how hard we try and how nice or expensive our outfit is, the rolls of fat seem to appear everywhere and are impossible to ignore. You determine that the best way to survive is to not look at yourself throughout the day and hope that no one else notices either.
Your place of employment is your next stop. Even though your job does not require too much physical activity, even the slightest activity turns your face a bright red from the effort. You eat your lunch, but regardless of what you decide to have, you know that people are silently judging you and sometimes you think that maybe you should avoid all food and try to lose weight fast. , but you know that it will never work for you.
Maybe you can turn to a clothing store for comfort. Unfortunately, there are not many choices that you have to shop at and stay on the outside. These store were not designed with you in mind and you find your self bumping into or knocking things over because it is so cramped. You realize that the largest size they carry is a 12, and since you are a 28, there is no way that is happening. Having to see how something that you manage to discover in your size looks on is something else that gets your heart racing. As is usually the case, looking at the clothing in the mirror brings disappointment. The fact that you are overweight is not changed because of what you are wearing.
Planting and pruning of people in the world should not be concerned about how they will be doing every day tasks, as obese person does. When you take a trip friends car, you worry that you will not be able to fit in the back seat.
Then your health, you're dealing with so-knees creak under the extra weight and your feet swell up and fight because of the extra pressure on your feet and your back hurts all the time because of the extra girth you place on your spine to the poor, and you can not even do a simple Six Pack AB exercises you did when you were younger.
Your friends and family are supportive and you know they love you but they will not let you forget, not even for a moment, how much weight you’ve gained or how much better you would look if you lost some weight and even though you turn to message boards like how to lose weight fast where there are people who are just like you, you seldom find the support you really need. That is what it is like to be really fat. This is what must be confronted by those of us with a weight problem. Sometimes it can be forgotten and have a good time it was possible, but then reality comes back and wants you to hide in the closet somewhere.
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